Love your take on this — I arrived at a very similar conclusion though I am not sure you can say my version was “micro” in nature. It’s crazy that we’ve allowed the rest of the world to define what cheating, boundaries, and trust should look like for our relationship.

I’m friends with pretty much all my exes and my boyfriend knows and has no problem with it. I think having more open and honest convesrations (and wine) would solve so many of our relationship woes.